27.11.2025

Today I want to talk about insecure people. Specifically, about those people that cannot feel good about themselves without putting others down.

In my personal life I had the unfortunate displeasure to meet a lot of these people, but the person that triggered this post was a woman who asked what people were doing in their free time after work, if they weren't going to the gym.

To be frank this entire question was stupid from the get go. Like, sorry that you are such a boring and lonely person that you have nothing else going for yourself in your life.

What annoyed me about this was the ignorance and especially the attitude of this person.

There are so many reasons that people don't go to the gym and some of them are even out of their own control because they are health reasons/financial reasons. But the arrogance with which she talked, as if she was someone better just because she went to the gym regularly, was grinding my gears.

She wanted to "brag" that she went there and was therefore healthier and more caring towards her body than others. And she wanted to find likeminded people so they could confirm her bias.

Humanity has been active long before gyms existed, so that entire premise was idiotic.

Unsurprisingly, her post triggered a lot of people and many got defensive and explained, that due to their work they moved enough, or that due to their depression they didn't go to the gym etc. but instead walked around and stuff.

This was not a positive post and was just judgmental and to me the woman that posted it, is at fault here.

Obviously, she has some issues with herself and wanted to feel better. The way she chose to do it though, was just awful.

Unfortunately, there are too many people that try to feel better about themselves by putting others down. I will never understand why those people are so bad at feeling good while others feel good as well.

It just seems so jealous and embarrassing.

Please just stop being so pathetic. It gives me second hand embarrassment.

sdenden, 11:35